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“Hi, I’m Drew Gerald – I’m Here To Help You Become A Remarkable Lover”

My purpose here is to empower you to have the most satisfying, fulfilling, pleasurable, and successful sex life possible.

Your consciousness will raise.

Your understanding of self and others will grow.

Your ability to ravish (or to be ravished by) high caliber lovers will ascend to world-class levels.

Your deepest, darkest, hurtful wounds and secrets will rise to the surface – to be seen, loved, felt, and healed.

This is a safe place to be honest, raw, sexy, playful, taboo, spiritual, kinky, and open.

With that being said, I’m also not here to be politically correct or beat around the bush.

We will talk about fucking.

We will dominate and submit.

We will say things like penis and cock, vagina and pussy. And masturbation, anal, oral.

We will love tenderly and compassionately.

We will connect with our spirituality.

We will challenge the status quo.

It may get a bit uncomfortable… but that’s wonderful because whatever you feel is okay. I know it can be weird or scary at first; it’s taken me a long time to get comfortable myself.

You see, the first 20 years of my life were spent lonely, afraid, insecure, ashamed, depressed, and confused. I was bullied, teased, ridiculed, and ostracized by my classmates from the age of six, catapulting me into social, mental, and emotional distress for the remaining 12 years of schooling.

At 18 I decided to do whatever it took to better my life. So I’ve spent the past decade of my life trying to figure out how to become the best lover – and man – I could be.

I’ve sorted through many ideas, trainings, approaches, books, “experts”, theories, techniques, and my own experiences to figure out what works and doesn’t – and I want to share that with you.

I’ve had incredible transformations in all areas of life, not just in the bedroom. From this vast experience and wisdom, I’ve developed my own core philosophy – “Holistic Sex” – that distills the greatest spiritual, sexual, and relationship ideas in one, dogma-free approach.

Drew Gerald - Remarkable Lover

A new approach to sex advice

Triad of Transformation

Have you ever wondered why simply learning new sex tips and tricks hasn’t satisfied your lover that much more? Or why just learning relationship theory hasn’t taken away the insecurities, fear, or shame?

What most “experts” don’t get is that you need to take a holistic approach in order to create lasting, profound change.

I’ve created “The Triad of Transformation” to solve this. Every article you’ll read here gives you advice on how to understand sexuality better, perform better in bed, or heal yourself and relationships deeper.

Sexual Understanding

You can’t solve your relationship problems from the same level of thinking that created them. To transform, we need to let go of ideas that no longer serve us and adopt empowering paradigms.

If you only heal your traumas without learning a new way to move forward, you’ll likely repeat them. If you only learn sex skills without understanding why they work, they won’t be effective.

You’ll be learning new ideas around sexual polarity, communication, spirituality, psychology, relationship dynamics, character traits, and meta perspectives for high-level sexual wisdom.

Sexual Performance

Don’t be fooled: there really are “right” and “wrong” ways to have sex… and being politically correct in the bedroom is the wrong way. I will show you techniques that get results, not neutered kudos.

If you only have the theory without the practical skills to implement, you’ll be stuck in your head. If you only heal and do inner work without being a skilled lover, you’ll leave your partner unfulfilled.

You’ll be learning skills and strategies to have better sex, such as dirty talk, seduction, arousal, positions, orgasm mastery techniqes, touching, breathing, and in-depth erotic how-to’s.

Sexual Healing

The most over-looked, and yet most critical, is the power of healing. Your willingness to face your demons and move through the pain and trauma of your past will determine your happiness.

If you only have the knowledge and theory of sex without doing any therapy, you’ll be stuck “knowing” not actually doing. If you only have the skills without the healing, you’ll be incongruent.

You’ll be learning the power of healing and letting go of disempowering conditionings, emotions, beleifs, traumas, stories, and patterns that hold you back from being who you really are.

It’s time for you to transform

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