A Different Take On Intimacy – LIVE

Drew Gerald Sexual Understanding Link

This is a replay of a recent live broadcast I did explaining what is required to have intimacy, and what intimacy really is.

We’re not really taught what that is and how to find it. We’re sold that it’s what happens between the sheets in a romantic relationship. It’s much more than physical, and beyond just romantic.

Learning the specific requirements to cultivate it are simple. But as simple as they are, they can be terrifying.

Facing rejection, judgment, and abandonment.

But this is deep healing work, not just some tactic.

The invitation is to go into it and surrender. To let ourselves be annihilated by fear, and be loved on the other side of it. It’s often not the pain we are avoiding, but the unconditional love that invalidates our stories of unworthiness and shame.

If you are interested in exploring this topic at a higher level, my upcoming Fractal Relation workshops will help.

Why Sexual Understanding Is Important

Drew Gerald Sexual Understanding Link

There’s a best-selling book published on what men know about women. It’s hundreds of pages long. But here’s the punchline: every page is blank. Whether or not it’s funny doesn’t matter nearly as much as the glaring problem it illustrates. It’s a conundrum that goes back millennia, unanswered by the greatest philosophers: most people have a difficulty understanding the opposite sex.

I was one of them. For the first two-thirds of my life, I myself was even more clueless than the average person. I barely knew much about myself and men, let alone… girls. I was confused, frustrated, and baffled—yet enamored by—the feminine creature.

My lack of success, skill, and happiness drove me to a dark place where loneliness, desperation, and deep sadness abide. A place where, unfortunately, many men and women stay for most of their lives. We didn’t know what we didn’t know; a lot of information and revelations have been made and documented for those willing to seek guidance, yet we remain woefully ignorant.

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